← Help in Grant County

A neighbor might be a victim of abuse

Use when you think a neighbor, coworker or friend (adult, senior or child) is being hurt, threatened or controlled by someone at home, and you want to help safely.

In danger right now: call 911. Crisis or thoughts of suicide: call or text 988. Not sure where to start? Call the Silver City Gospel Mission: 575-388-5071. Police, fire or sheriff, not an emergency: 575-388-8840 (Central Dispatch). Print our list of phone numbers →
These are the same steps our staff use when they help someone. "They" means the person who needs help: you, or someone you are helping. Go in order, and call ahead when you can.

1If someone is in danger now

Screaming, hitting, threats with a weapon, or someone begging for help: call 911. Don't step in yourself.
911 (Grant County Regional Dispatch)
Emergency: police, fire, ambulance
911
Silver City · 24/7

2Talk privately and listen

Only talk when the abuser is not around and can't see their phone.
You can say"I've noticed some things and I'm worried about you. I'm here if you ever want to talk."
You can say"It is not your fault. You don't deserve to be hurt."

3Share help they can call

El Refugio
El Refugio 24-hour crisis hotline (local DV shelter)
575-538-2125
Silver City (address shared by phone) · 24/7
National Domestic Violence Hotline
24/7 domestic violence hotline (call, text, chat)
1-800-799-7233
· 24/7
New Mexico Legal Aid
Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault and Stalking Legal Helpline
1-877-974-3400
· M-F 9am-5pm
At the Gospel MissionSierra House is a shelter for women and children. See the guide "A woman (maybe with children) has no safe place or is leaving an abuser".

4If it is a child, senior or disabled adult

In New Mexico, anyone who thinks a child is being abused or neglected must report it. Call #SAFE (#7233) from a cell phone.
NM CYFD - Statewide Central Intake
Report child abuse or neglect (#SAFE)
855-333-7233 · 24/7: #SAFE
· 24/7
NM Aging & Long-Term Services - Adult Protective Services
Report adult abuse, neglect or exploitation (statewide intake)
866-654-3219

This guide is general information only, not medical, legal or other professional advice. Places and rules change, so please call before you go. In an emergency, call 911; in a mental health crisis, call or text 988. Disclaimer

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Questions, or want someone to walk through this with you? The Silver City Gospel Mission, 111 S. Texas St., Silver City, 575-388-5071, weekdays 9:00am-1:45pm. Everyone is welcome.