These are the same steps our staff use when they help someone. "They" means the person who needs help: you, or someone you are helping. Go in order, and call ahead when you can.
1Check for suicide risk first
You can ask"Sometimes when people feel this way, they think about ending their life. Are you thinking about killing yourself?"
If yes, or you are not sure: stay with them and use the guide "Someone is in crisis or talking about suicide".
Call or text 988 together. If they have a plan, a weapon or pills with them, or are in danger now: call 911.
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
988 crisis call/text/chat
988
· 24/7
Hidalgo Medical Services
HMS Mental Health Crisis Line 24/7
855-422-4334
· 24/7
2Listen and stay with them
You can say"I'm really glad you are here and talking to me."
You can ask"What has been the hardest part lately?"
You can ask"What has kept you going so far?"
3Share hope, if they want it
You can say"Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28, KJV)
You can say"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil." (Jeremiah 29:11, KJV)
You can ask"Would you like me to pray with you?"
4Connect them with people and purpose
At the Gospel MissionPeer support counselors and the case worker can keep meeting with them.
Silver City Gospel Mission
Peer support counselors
575-388-5071
111 S. Texas St., Silver City · Mondays and Wednesdays, 8:30am-1:00pm
New Mexico Crisis and Access Line (NMCAL)
Peer-to-Peer Warmline (call or text)
855-466-7100 · 24/7:
855-662-7474
· Call daily 3:00-11:30pm MT; text daily 6:00-11:00pm MT
Hidalgo Medical Services
Silver City Community Health Center: Behavioral health counseling
575-800-1467
1007 N. Pope St., Silver City · Mon-Fri 7:00 am-6:00 pm (clinic hours)
This guide is general information only, not medical, legal or other professional advice. Places and rules change, so please call before you go. In an emergency, call 911; in a mental health crisis, call or text 988. Disclaimer
Know a better way? Is something out of date?
If a number or place here is wrong, you know a better resource, or you know a better way to help, tell us. We automatically check reliable sources and update supported routine details. Unclear changes and safety guidance go to our staff for review.
Suggest a change
📞 We need volunteers to keep this guide up to date. You can help from home, an hour a week.
See how →
Questions, or want someone to walk through this with you? The Silver City Gospel Mission, 111 S. Texas St., Silver City,
575-388-5071, weekdays 9:00am-1:45pm. Everyone is welcome.